David,
Thank you for providing some useful info.
Those screenshots I was talking about would also be helpful, as would the other information I asked for.
I mean, it's possible somebody will come along and recognize the signature personality of your problem and offer you that silver bullet you are hoping for, but until then, it might be worthwhile to provide some other info that would help.
Sorry I couldn't be more help - maybe somebody else will be more help..
Rob